Women want the truth But Everyones truth is different. Reality is some women are too blinded by love to see the truth staring them in the face. Some are scared to start over. Others refuse to lose to the "sidebitch" while some play the same game men play. The latter we call the infamous "HOE in a relationship".
Giving a woman the choice to decide If she wants to deal with your "other bitches" is beyond comprehension for men. Correct me if I'm wrong but Shaggy didn't make $20million by saying "yes it was me". No I didn't think so. If a man tells his queen, the woman he loves, that he cheats on the side clearly he has no regard or concern for her heartbreak. Ladies respect the fact that we lie because we love u. It's only for your protection.
I can't understand why women say "give me the choice". Any woman willing to deal with a cheating man doesn't need to be told he's cheating. For what? 80% of women that want that choice will respect the honesty but will leave the man. So why tell you if your gonna leave? Either way you don't need to know shit. Live your life and keep searching through your mans phone like you've been doing. Catch him on your own & make that decision to leave. We can all agree Gdep was an idiot for confessing right? Same rules apply in a relationship.
When men meet women chances are there are other women. Knowing the exact moment when you go from being one of his girlfriends to being his "wifey" is critical in requesting the truth from a man. That moment can come & go then it's too late to ask for the truth. You've been dealing with abnormal behavior (partying every night) for a while & now u want the truth?
The truth is nothing more than a fiction of your imagination. You already know what the truth is. You're in the relationship. Men don't live double lives. This isn't the movies. Formulate your own truth and act upon it because men will never tell u 100% truth. U know why? Cause women can't handle the truth!!!
Sincerely yours.
@blueraydre
"For what? 80% of women that want that choice will respect the honesty but will leave the man. So why tell you if your gonna leave?"
ReplyDeleteWhy cheat if you can't afford to lose her? It's like saying a man can cheat but since you don't want to lose her then you won't tell her the truth. Bottom line is then you don't need to be in a relationship.
If you're with someone & feel the need to cheat & lie, then that person isn't accepting you for who you are but they are accepting you for the person you're PRETENDING/LYING to be.
Otherwise, a very interesting post/read. & I think you definitely are right when you say "Reality is some women are too blinded by love to see the truth staring them in the face. Some are scared to start over "<-That's the truth right there!
Good work!
An interesting article indeed. I have to say I agree with Simply Tia's comments.
ReplyDeleteIf a woman leaves you once she's found out the truth then so be it, there many out there who are willing to stay, FIND THOSE.
Who's reality is monogamy anyway? I am African, My grandfather had 6 wives, I've had 5 step mothers....only one of the 5 women my father had children with was happy to stick around so I may have a warped view of polygamy/monogamy anyway. I think so long all the adults involved are consenting then its all good.
I personally prefer a monogamous relationship...I hate sharing!!!!!!!